Wouldn’t it be nice if that little, nagging voice in your head that just loves to point out all of your flaws and faults would just shut up?
And, wouldn’t it be even better if the person you are dating, who also likes to criticize you and put you down, would do the same?
Don’t you get enough of that in your own head already? Why does it keep appearing in the form of the people you are most attracted to?
One of my favorite quotes is, “Don’t believe everything you think.” This is especially true for the Inner Critic. The voice of your Inner Critic interferes with your ability to manifest your SoulMate. It is the part of you, the inner self-talk, that expresses self-doubt, frustration with your actions or disapproval of your being. It can be paralyzing or cause you to endlessly second guess yourself.
It also doubts that you are lovable, worthy or deserving of a great relationship. It tells you that you lack the essential ingredients to attract your SoulMate. It says, “Why try? It’s not going to happen anyway.” It says that not only is the situation hopeless, but YOU’RE hopeless.
Have you ever thought
- I’m too old to find love
- I’m too fat
- I’m not rich enough
- I’m not what women want
- I’m not sexy enough
- I’m not attractive
This is your Inner Critic lying to you!
Tune in to hear Dr. Annette Vaillancourt take on the Inner Critic. Learn how to use Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) to disarm and disable it. Turn your Inner Critic into your Inner Cheerleader!
Annette Vaillancourt, Ph.D. is a master manifestor, who has used Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) since 2006 to transform her life and those of her clients. Personally, she used EFT to lose 70 pounds, manifest an unexpected $70,000, write her first book in 6 months, her second book in 6 weeks and her third book in 6 days, cure herself of plantar fasciitis and earn a Brown Belt in Shotokan Karate at the age of 57.
After 25+ years as a couple’s counselor in private practice, she turned her attention from trying to resurrect broken marriages to helping spiritually minded singles manifest their SoulMates. As the author of How to Manifest Your SoulMate with EFT: Relationship as a Spiritual Path, she teaches people how to quickly remove their internal barriers to love.